Self-talk can build or break a person.

"It's she!!.she's d one who makes me feel is way."
"It's all his faults."
"My frns r disappointin."
"my boss is d one who makes my life miserable"

list can b goin on n on as som ppl blame thr probs on smth or someone.
thr's smth we would lik to chg in our lives.nobd's life circumstances r perfect.bt wat r we tellin ourselves abt ths circumstances tat make us feel d way we feel.
listen to d words which we had been tellin ourselvs.
"oh,wat's d use?"
"who cares?"
"i m a failure"
"i m lonely n miserable"
"my family dosnt lov me"
"tis is wat i like,n who cares!?!"

we had bn tellin ourselvs lies n misconceptions.such self talks hav often times hinder our spiritual growth n relationships with god.
it is tim for meee to learn to spk d truth of god to ourselvs n chg our self talk.whn we start to replace ths lies n misconceptions with d truth of god,we would be heading for a victorious life. the circumstances migt nt hav chged,bt we hav chged.no longer do we nd to suffer self-destructive anguish bt we learn to intepret situations d way god sees thm.Our feelins r caused by wat we tell ourselves abt our circumstances,whethr in words or in attitudes.

Think for a moment.abt those thgs u tel urself.as a studen,if u tel urself ur teacher is al out to make life diff for u,wat would u do.?u will blife wat u tell urself.thrfore,u wil nt cooperate with tat teachr.negativ n distortd statemnts which a person repeats to himself come frm d devil.ths toxic in mind creates painful emotions.

wil b on d road to greater happiness whn we tak d first step to identify our self-talk.kp a good mental health,it makes a diff wat u bliv.other ppl circumstances,events n material thgs r nt wat make u happy.wat u  bliv abt ths thgs is wat makes u happy or un. wat u think n beliv determines how u feel n wat u do.

.Amen.